At the time when you guys were together, do you recall how much you guys argued? Maybe it was a little or maybe it was... a lot. Looking back on it, if you guys could have resolved those arguments, maybe things would have gone more smoothly. Maybe they wouldn't have broken up with you. It may sound insane, but even after all those arguments, you may still want your ex back. That's perfectly fine, and if you can just learn how to cool things down a bit and handle arguments in a calmer way, you'll be a lot more of an attractive person that your ex will want to be around with.
Some of the biggest themes that couples argue about are commonly seen in media and society - money and sex. For example, lack of sex, or better yet lack of good sex, may cause a couple to argue. Do you remember a time where you were really, really aroused and wanted to jump into the moment only to find out that your girlfriend or boyfriend would rather watch TV instead? Days and evenings would go by and still... no sex! Frustrating... I know. Your relationship would get duller and you would start blaming your partner for the lack of excitement or even worse, look somewhere else for "more excitement."
Lesson number one - you can't force your partner to have sex with you! It's just not going to happen. You needed to stop arguing with them since that risked your relationship. Instead, learn to take it slow, even it takes weeks. From being in a lack of sex state to getting sex is one of the biggest obstacles in a relationship, but if you take overcome this hurdle, you'll eventually be able to not only get what you want, but make your boyfriend and girlfriend want to have sex with you which is a lot better then them doing it because you wanted it. They'll respect you more too! Doing this will allow fewer arguments and make your relationship last.
How about this? Have you ever had those embarrassing dinner date moments when your boyfriend or girlfriend looks at you, expecting you to pay for the meal? You start to tell them that last time you paid and they beg to differ. Before you know it, you guys are arguing over a seventeen dollar meal and the table next to you is looking at you guys... From there, every time you went out to eat with your girlfriend or boyfriend, you two kept track of who paid the tabs, resulting in a more arguments if someone accidentally "made a mistake."
If you want to get your ex back, you got to be able to let things slide a little more. Many times couples argue because one feels that they are right and have an obligation to prove that they are right by doing everything they can to win over an argument. Perhaps you are one of those people that believe that every penny is worked through hard work. It's great to have that hard working mindset, but paying the extra tab isn't worth damaging your relationship and potentially being in a "broken up stage" where you're asking yourself "how to get ex my girlfriend back" or "how to get my ex boyfriend back?"
Lesson number two - you don't have win every argument! If you argued less, then you wouldn't have to ask yourself those questions! No sweat though... what's done is done. Just remember, that arguments can be solved if you just give in... Yes I said it. Be willing to put your ego aside for the sake of having a healthy relationship. Not only will it make your partner happier, but if you agree with what they say in a way that you can also express a fair opinion, then they won't feel threatened by a resisting force which will stop them from arguing with you.
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